I have read a lot of articles and books on getting the attention of a Nigeria man and I don’t want to draw a conclusion that our ladies have lost it all, I mean the beauty and seductive power.
Why all of a sudden our big boys in town now have high preferences over the foreign ladies, what should be the cause?
Are Nigeria ladies not better enough? Oh well, as a lady going after what you want is never difficult to get of course, you don’t want to go for less.
My dear sisters, to really be able to hook up with a typical Nigeria man, you’ve got to wise up and be smart. Yes! There’s a magic formula.
Just follow this acronym ‘MAGNETICS’ and see the outcome yourself. Hope for the best, but don’t lose sight of reality, they are definitely two likely outcome, its either he falls in-love or reject your advances
M- Masculinity: A man wants a woman who gets them; they love that inner feminine essence. As a lady, you can’t fake the inner sparkles.
Even lipstick, mascara, sexy dresses, and high heels can’t replace the real inner-sparkles that radiates from a woman. Invest times letting the inner you shine not just on physical appearance. You just have to be unique to get Mr. Right
A-Acceptance: Ladies should accept and appreciate him just the way he is. Don’t try to change things that make him happy like the clothes he loves, his circles of friend, the things he loves to do.
He is not some kind of project that needs to be fixed. If he needs your help, he will ask for it, if he needs advice, he will get your attention. You may end up pushing up the walls trying to fix him.
Ladies, if you can’t do that, then he is probably not the right guy you deserve. Just move on find with who you can respect and appreciate just the way he is. Being in love means accepting every flaw and imperfection and otherwise from your partner
G-Grateful: The two primary goals a man should offer to a woman are provision and protection. If he is willingly to take such risks to invest in your life, his time, talent and treasure in order to provide for you, I don’t think a little gratitude is too much to ask in return.
Appreciate his hardwork to take care of you even if he can’t provide all your needs. If you want a Nigeria man to fall in you hopelessly, don’t take him for granted or disrespect his effort
N -Nurturing: A woman’s beauty and grace is demonstrated in her innate ability as a nurturer. Simply put that on. Don’t take this as the idea of sexist, but we are just talking about two people coming together to love, care and make each other’s life even better.
The beauty of a relationship is when two people come together to give rather than to take. If you aren’t in love with him, there is no need getting him to love you.
Treat him the same way, you want to be treated. Ensure that he knows how you feel about him. Make him know that you are inlove with your actions and words. It’s not a nice feeling being inlove and not getting back that love. Cook his favourites.
To get to a typical Nigeria man’s heart is through his stomach. Imagine how he feels coming back home to meet a delicious meal. He will definitely appreciate that and will miss your cooking when you absent
E-Easy going- Despite all you have experienced in the past, you may never know when a man wants to please you if he is able. Infact where the problem comes up is when he realizes he can no longer please you
Nothing makes a man feel worse than stuck in a problem he can’t just solve so if you feel unhappy too often with him, you are creating a gap between you both because no man wants to feel like a failure. Complaining and being negative will simply create division. Nobody enjoys nagging
Nigeria men sees positive, happy and radiant woman as appealing so be that kind of woman. Love and respect the people he holds dear like his friends and families
Understand that he logically needs time alone to be with friends, families and work, don’t be too clingy, that may irritate him. Give him a little space
Be his oasis; create a peaceful environment for him. Men loves comfort, be his comfort place then he will literally hand you his heart
T-Trustworthy: Be it on a battlefield or a football pitch, having your partner’s back signifies togetherness. A man got to trust that you are on his team, otherwise he will never commit. Make him feel safe with you
I -Independence: This is one area where most women fail. We are in the era where ladies want to get from a man without contributing.
They see men as ATM machines where they can withdraw money to purchase the latest phones and the trending fashion, they want them already made.
As for me, a successful man is who he is as a person not just who what he has accomplished, I don’t know about you. Most ladies won’t support this but no man wants a woman that will tie him down financially.
Help your man see the big picture, help him achieve his dreams, advice and support him when needs be
C-Captivate: When you have exuded these traits, you will officially be in your man’s head and heart as well. His heart opens and emotion starts to enter. He now sees as the greatest woman in his life and wouldn’t want to risks you
S-Soulmate: When you appreciate him for who he is, adding some gratitude, a nurturing spirit an easy going nature, ability to be trustworthy and honor his independence, it ends up to one thing, soulmate, because that’s what you will find.Buy and Sell Bitcoin in Nigeria - Register for free on Luno
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